Breastfeeding Without Birthing: Latching An Adopted Newborn

When Pittsburgher Danielle Edwards found out she would be unable to have children biologically, she says she felt totally fine with the idea of adoption. What made her
upset was the idea of losing out on the opportunity to breastfeed.

“Breastfeeding was always something I imagined myself doing,” she says, “It was just part of my vision of myself.”

As she and her husband, Jonathan, planned the domestic adoption of their daughter Eliana, now 3, Danielle began researching induced lactation. She discovered the Newman-Goldfarb protocol for inducing lactation and had endless questions. Danielle met with a lactation consultant at the Breastfeeding Center of Pittsburgh, which she found helpful, but the visit was not covered by insurance because she didn’t yet have a baby and so this resource became cost prohibitive for her as she prepared to breastfeed the baby she’d soon adopt. She knew she’d use the pediatric practice associated with the Breastfeeding Center, Kids Plus Pediatrics, because one of their pediatricians specializes in supporting adoptive families. But what about her questions before her baby arrived? “It felt daunting,” she baby breastfeedingsays.

Danielle found some support from her local La Leche League chapter and enormous support from an online forum, Ask Lenore, but still needed a physician to help her get prescriptions for the medications she’d need to help her body induce lactation. She says, “I felt nervous, but I went to see my gynecologist carrying this 20-page protocol I’d printed from the Internet. As soon as I started explaining how I wanted to induce lactation, my doctor was so excited for me!”

Danielle says her gynecologist (Pittsburgh-based Dr. SharonEdwards children Baer) went above and beyond, communicating with the doctors who’d written the protocol and finding out additional information. To induce lactation, Danielle needed a birth control pill with a high level of progesterone, so Dr. Baer prescribed Yasmin. In addition, Danielle needed a medication that would raise her prolactin level. Many mothers seeking to induce lactation use Domperidome, which is difficult to get in the United States as it is not FDA-approved for this purpose.

The Edwards Family heard from their adoption agency that they would soon be getting a baby…very soon! “Our daughter’s birth mother was already 8 months pregnant when we found out, and she went into labor 2 weeks early.” The Edwards family arrived in California to meet their daughter shortly after she was born, and from the very beginning, “Eliana did everything at the breast,” says Danielle.

She used a Lact-Aid nursing trainer system to provide formula for her daughter at the breast, while keeping up a pumping routine using a rented hospital-grade double electric breastpump. Danielle’s milk came in when her baby was 2 weeks old and Danielle was able to nurse her for a year with supplementation via the Lact-Aid.

the EdwardsIn 2014, the Edwards family had 2.5 months notice when they set out to adopt their son, Lucas, who is now 2 months old. Danielle was able to work with Dr. Baer to take her medications and began pumping in 2-3 hour intervals a month prior to his birth. “I even woke once every night to pump,” she says, until she built a supply that a 2-week old baby would need.

The Edwards family flew to Texas, where they were present for Lucas’ birth and Jonathan was able to cut his umbilical cord. Soon after, Danielle put Lucas to her breast. She says, “It was amazing. He was right on my chest trying to latch.” She was able to stay in the hospital with Lucas until he was discharged and was able to provide a full supply of milk for him.

Once home in the swing of busy life with two children, Danielle says she hasn’t been able to maintain a full supply. “Until last week, I was breastfeeding him with the Lact-Aid and then pumping right afterward. I’d nurse for 30 minutes and then pump for another 30 to build my supply.” The process became too time consuming. She says, “I can do so many things while I’m nursing. I can prepare breakfast and even put my toddler on the potty with the baby at my breast, but I feel attached to the pump. It was just too hard.”

Danielle said she felt like she had a choice: use her time to pump and feed Lucas her milk in bottles, or else put him to breast and supplement her milk. “I chose to keep him at the breast,” she says. This decision has been a hard one for her, because she worked so hard to build up a supply. But in the end, Lucas loves his time at the breast.

“It’s his favorite place,” she says as he nurses to sleep while we talk on the phone. “I can’t imagine giving him bottles.”

Danielle’s advice for other moms considering induced lactation? “Just give it a try. Inducing lactation seems so natural to me, and I wouldn’t have done it any other way.” Before having children, Danielle wanted to breastfeed because of the nutritional benefits. But now, having put her babies to her breast, she realizes the bonding aspect of breastfeeding is very valuable.

“When you adopt, you don’t get that time with your baby inside you. This is another way for them to be so close to you. Once I think about that, it takes away the stress of not having a full supply.”

Have you induced lactation to breastfeed without birthing? Leave us a comment to share your experience!

3 comments to Breastfeeding Without Birthing: Latching An Adopted Newborn

  • Leah

    I also induced lactation for my adopted son. We had a long lead time with him, so I had time to prepare!We’ve been very fortunate- he took to nursing and is still going strong at 13 months old! I’d love to spread the word to other adoptive parents that breastfeeding an adopted child is indeed possible!!

  • […] been blogging about mothers who have induced lactation and used Domperdione to help do so (see here and here). Other mothers we’ve been in contact with have used Domperidone to help boost their […]

  • […]  Photo submitted Thank you so much Danielle for opening your heart and sharing your story with the world. You give hope to all those Momma’s to be who are unable to carry their own babies…you give them hope in creating a strong emotional bond with their adopted babies and achieving their dream of breast feeding. Congratulations on your beautiful family, God bless! **Story originally posted on: Mothers Boutique […]

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